Free Will

The year 2015 is drawing to a close and with closure comes the potential for new doors of opportunity to open. I wish you all greater emotional depth in your lives in 2016 and enlightening adventures into your own family systems. Recently, in my doctoral program, I was asked to…

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Sexuality, Sex Identity, and Gender Identity

This blog post explores the topic of sexuality, sex identity, and gender identity from a systemic approach. This topic arose when an individual wanted my response to online criticisms of Bert Hellinger around the topic. So I will address the criticism that is out there in cyberspace, listen to Hellinger’s…

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Boundary Setting

This post supplies you with boundary setting exercises. I experienced these exercises in various forms at workshops and trainings. Boundary setting is essential to sever energetic entanglements with the living and the dead. In Systemic Constellations, a long scarf is frequently used to create a physical reminder that there is…

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Symptoms Create A Boundary

Many physical, psychological, emotional, spiritual, and relational conditions and symptoms create a boundary for an individual. This is especially evident when the individual doesn’t have a healthy strong energetic boundary in life. In its infinite wisdom, the unconscious mind, which is imprinted in the cells of the body, provides a…

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Healthy Boundary

After reading my last blog, you may be sensing that some of your relationships with others may not have a healthy boundary. There may be unresolved emotional trauma lingering from the past creating unhealthy relationships with those who are living and those who have died in the physical world and…

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Emotional Entanglements (Part 3)

Let’s discuss Energetic Emotional Entanglements that come out of unresolved family emotional trauma and wounds.  If you are struggling with chronic conditions, repetitive life patterns, and/or relationship issues that aren’t serving you well, and you can’t seem to shift the energy, then this post might be for you.    Part 1…

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Are You Stuck in Life?

Are you stuck in life?  Systemic family constellations provide insight for shifting unhealthy relationships into healthy relationships.  This past weekend I spent three days in a systemic family constellations workshop and training.  These relationships may be with your intimate partner, parents, children, siblings, friends, co-workers, or other community members in…

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Radical Inclusion (Part 1)

I don’t know who coined the term, but I first learned about “radical inclusion” from a very talented German systemic constellation facilitator by the name of Albrecht Mahr.  Albrecht is a medical doctor who specializes in psychosomatic medicine, psychoanalysis, and systems therapy.  He’s been teaching systemic constellation work around the…

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