Tag: shunned
Love Relationships
Do you struggle in your love relationships? Love relationships come in many forms. Our love relationships as adults often carry the imprint of our love relationships with our parents. Are you able to fully take in the love of your mother and your father just the way it is…
Victim and Perpetrator
It’s convenient to blame a war on one man. When discussing World War II, most of the world points the finger at Adolf Hitler. The truth is that we behave the way others let us behave. The world stood aside and let Hitler behave the way he behaved. The heavy…
Sexuality, Sex Identity, and Gender Identity
This blog post explores the topic of sexuality, sex identity, and gender identity from a systemic approach. This topic arose when an individual wanted my response to online criticisms of Bert Hellinger around the topic. So I will address the criticism that is out there in cyberspace, listen to Hellinger’s…
Former Intimate Partner
How do former intimate partners fit into your family system? Have you amicably separated from your former intimate partner(s) or have you left in an explosion of fireworks with revenge on your mind? The use of the term “ex” is a misnomer. The former intimate partner belongs or remains in…
Ancestral Emotional Wounds (Part 3)
Is your life entangled with many of the common ancestral emotional wounds? Do you feel your relationship with your mother and father is compassionate and loving (see Part 1 and Part 2 of this post) and yet you are still struggling or challenged in life in some way? You may…