Incest

In this blog post, I will address the topic of incest. Rape culture and sexual assault is such a huge topic today, that I thought I would systemically address the issue of incest in the family system. Let’s look at the societal definition of incest: “Incest: sexual intercourse between persons…

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Systemic Healing

Systemic healing of human beings frequently runs counter to quantitative empirical study because it takes into account that we are unique creatures. Systemic healing focuses on context. One of the limitations of scientific study is that it continually seeks commonalities to back a hypothesis. If a particular event Z occurs…

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Immigration (Part 1)

Immigration or migration is an emotional time for everyone involved.  Family systems carry the emotional wounds and trauma of immigration.  Family systems pass on their unresolved emotional trauma to the living descendants to be acknowledged, accepted, addressed, and healed.  We suffer consequences physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically, financially, intellectually, and…

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A Twin Dies (Part 3)

When a twin dies many of the energetic dynamics are similar to losing any sibling to death or otherwise.  Each family member is traumatized in a different way.  You may consciously or unconsciously remember this sibling.  Your body may feel this loss in some way as an emptiness, you may…

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Adopted Child (Part 1)

The adopted child may experience unconscious, unresolved energetic emotional entanglements with their biological family system.  Unless the adoption is openly emotionally processed by everyone involved, there will be individuals living the impact of this unresolved emotional suppression and trauma through struggle in some way. The individual who has been given…

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Ancestral Emotional Wounds (Part 3)

Is your life entangled with many of the common ancestral emotional wounds?  Do you feel your relationship with your mother and father is compassionate and loving (see Part 1 and Part 2 of this post) and yet you are still struggling or challenged in life in some way?  You may…

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