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War
Patricia K. Robertson
Chronic Conditions, Family Constellations, Family Relationships, Healing, Healing Ritual & Ceremony, Peaceful Possibilities, Relationships, Systemic Constellations, Transgenerational Trauma, Victim and Perpetrator, War and Conflict, Where Healing Begins
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Anger
Patricia K. Robertson
Chronic Conditions, Epigenetics, Family Constellations, Family Relationships, Healing, Healing Ritual & Ceremony, Love Relationships, Peaceful Possibilities, Relationships, Residential Schools, Systemic Constellations, Transgenerational Trauma, Victim and Perpetrator, Where Healing Begins
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Let’s take a look at what happens when anger is suppressed or carried down transgenerationally through a family system. Sources of Anger Anger may be the result of feelings of injustice, unfairness, wrongdoing, betrayal, embarrassment, or resentment. Anger that originates in frustration may simmer on the back burner over weeks,…
Money
Patricia K. Robertson
Family Constellations, Family Relationships, Healing, Love Relationships, Peaceful Possibilities, Relationships, Systemic Constellations
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$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ Let’s talk systemically about money. How many of you inwardly cringed or otherwise perked up at the mention of money? Discussing money is a difficult thing for many individuals to do, however, it is a systemic emotional family issue that desires greater attention. Many families don’t discuss their relationship…
Love Wheel
Patricia K. Robertson
Family Constellations, Family Relationships, Healing, Healing Ritual & Ceremony, Love Relationships, Peaceful Possibilities, Relationships, Systemic Constellations
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This blog post is about understanding life and love through the four directions of the Medicine Wheel. About fifteen years ago I was introduced to the four directions of the Medicine Wheel as it is integrated into many indigenous cultures. Since then, I have experienced the Medicine Wheel through the…
Love Relationships
Patricia K. Robertson
Chronic Conditions, Family Constellations, Family Relationships, Healing, Healing Ritual & Ceremony, Love Relationships, Peaceful Possibilities, Relationships, Sex Identity, Systemic Constellations, Where Healing Begins
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Do you struggle in your love relationships? Love relationships come in many forms. Our love relationships as adults often carry the imprint of our love relationships with our parents. Are you able to fully take in the love of your mother and your father just the way it is…
Cancer
Patricia K. Robertson
Boundaries, Cancer, Chronic Conditions, Epigenetics, Family Constellations, Family Relationships, Healing, Healing Techniques, Peaceful Possibilities, Relationships, Systemic Constellations, Where Healing Begins
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I woke up the other day involved in a chat with cancer. Some days I just wake up knowing what I’m supposed to write about and share with others. I don’t have cancer, but nevertheless, the chat was very informative and I thought I would pass on the messages that…
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Anger
Let’s take a look at what happens when anger is suppressed or carried down transgenerationally through a family system. Sources of Anger Anger may be the result of feelings of injustice, unfairness, wrongdoing, betrayal, embarrassment, or resentment. Anger that originates in frustration may simmer on the back burner over weeks,…
Money
$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ Let’s talk systemically about money. How many of you inwardly cringed or otherwise perked up at the mention of money? Discussing money is a difficult thing for many individuals to do, however, it is a systemic emotional family issue that desires greater attention. Many families don’t discuss their relationship…
Love Wheel
This blog post is about understanding life and love through the four directions of the Medicine Wheel. About fifteen years ago I was introduced to the four directions of the Medicine Wheel as it is integrated into many indigenous cultures. Since then, I have experienced the Medicine Wheel through the…
Love Relationships
Do you struggle in your love relationships? Love relationships come in many forms. Our love relationships as adults often carry the imprint of our love relationships with our parents. Are you able to fully take in the love of your mother and your father just the way it is…
Cancer
I woke up the other day involved in a chat with cancer. Some days I just wake up knowing what I’m supposed to write about and share with others. I don’t have cancer, but nevertheless, the chat was very informative and I thought I would pass on the messages that…
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- A Twin Dies (Part 1)
- A Twin Dies (Part 2)
- A Twin Dies (Part 3)
- Abortion
- Adopted Child (Part 1)
- Adopted Child (Part 2)
- Adopted Child (Part 3)
- Ancestral Emotional Wounds (Part 3)
- Ancient Wisdom
- Anger
- Are You Stuck in Life?
- Bernried 2014
- Born Too Soon
- Boundary Setting
- Cancer
- Child Born to a Woman in Mourning
- Chronic Illness & Emotional Stress or Trauma
- Drawn to the Dead
- Emotion (Part 5)
- Emotional Entanglements (Part 3)
- Emotional Wounds for Men (Part 1)
- Emotional Wounds for Men (Part 2)
- Emotions (Part 1)
- Emotions (Part 2)
- Energetic Impact of Parent Separation on Children
- Energetic Separation From the Dead
- Epigenetics
- Former Intimate Partner
- Free Will
- Give and Take in Relationships (Part 1)
- Give and Take in Relationships (Part 2)
- Heal Yourself
- Healthy Boundary
- Hoarding
- How You Belong
- Immigration (Part 1)
- Immigration (Part 2)
- Immigration (Part 3)
- Incest
- Intimate Emotional Relationship (Part 4)
- Legacy of Canada’s Indian Residential Schools
- Let Go of Fears (Part 1)
- Let Go of Fears: Ceremony (Part 2)
- Live Life Fully
- Living in Agency
- Love Relationships
- Love Wheel
- Medicine Wheel
- Money
- Mothers and Daughters (Part 1)
- Mothers and Daughters (Part 2)
- Mothers and Daughters (Part 3)
- Patriarchy
- Peaceful Possibilities Books by Patricia
- Radical Inclusion (Part 1)
- Radical Inclusion (Part 2)
- Radical Inclusion (Part 3)
- Radical Inclusion (Part 4)
- Relationship
- Relationship With Father
- Residential Schools
- Ritual (Part 1)
- Ritual (Part 2)
- Serbia
- Sexuality, Sex Identity, and Gender Identity
- Stop Living in Agency
- Symptoms Create A Boundary
- Systemic Healing
- To Constellate or Not
- Transgenerational Trauma
- Victim and Perpetrator
- War
- Welcome!
- What Is Healing? (Part 3)
- What Is Healing? (Part One)
- What Is Healing? (Part Two)
- Where Healing Begins
- Why The Butterfly?
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