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Anger
Patricia K. Robertson
Chronic Conditions, Epigenetics, Family Constellations, Family Relationships, Healing, Healing Ritual & Ceremony, Love Relationships, Peaceful Possibilities, Relationships, Residential Schools, Systemic Constellations, Transgenerational Trauma, Victim and Perpetrator, Where Healing Begins
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Let’s take a look at what happens when anger is suppressed or carried down transgenerationally through a family system. Sources of Anger Anger may be the result of feelings of injustice, unfairness, wrongdoing, betrayal, embarrassment, or resentment. Anger that originates in frustration may simmer on the back burner over weeks,…
Victim and Perpetrator
Patricia K. Robertson
Critics of Constellations or Hellinger, Family Constellations, Family Relationships, Healing, Incest, Peaceful Possibilities, Relationships, Systemic Constellations, Victim and Perpetrator
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It’s convenient to blame a war on one man. When discussing World War II, most of the world points the finger at Adolf Hitler. The truth is that we behave the way others let us behave. The world stood aside and let Hitler behave the way he behaved. The heavy…
Sexuality, Sex Identity, and Gender Identity
Patricia K. Robertson
and Gender Identity, Boundaries, Epigenetics, Family Constellations, Family Relationships, Healing, Peaceful Possibilities, Relationships, Systemic Constellations, Where Healing Begins
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This blog post explores the topic of sexuality, sex identity, and gender identity from a systemic approach. This topic arose when an individual wanted my response to online criticisms of Bert Hellinger around the topic. So I will address the criticism that is out there in cyberspace, listen to Hellinger’s…
Healthy Boundary
Patricia K. Robertson
Family Constellations, Family Relationships, Healing, Healing Techniques, Peaceful Possibilities, Relationships, Residential Schools, Systemic Constellations, Where Healing Begins
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After reading my last blog, you may be sensing that some of your relationships with others may not have a healthy boundary. There may be unresolved emotional trauma lingering from the past creating unhealthy relationships with those who are living and those who have died in the physical world and…
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Anger
Let’s take a look at what happens when anger is suppressed or carried down transgenerationally through a family system. Sources of Anger Anger may be the result of feelings of injustice, unfairness, wrongdoing, betrayal, embarrassment, or resentment. Anger that originates in frustration may simmer on the back burner over weeks,…
Victim and Perpetrator
It’s convenient to blame a war on one man. When discussing World War II, most of the world points the finger at Adolf Hitler. The truth is that we behave the way others let us behave. The world stood aside and let Hitler behave the way he behaved. The heavy…
Sexuality, Sex Identity, and Gender Identity
This blog post explores the topic of sexuality, sex identity, and gender identity from a systemic approach. This topic arose when an individual wanted my response to online criticisms of Bert Hellinger around the topic. So I will address the criticism that is out there in cyberspace, listen to Hellinger’s…
Healthy Boundary
After reading my last blog, you may be sensing that some of your relationships with others may not have a healthy boundary. There may be unresolved emotional trauma lingering from the past creating unhealthy relationships with those who are living and those who have died in the physical world and…
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Alphabetized Archive
- A Twin Dies (Part 1)
- A Twin Dies (Part 2)
- A Twin Dies (Part 3)
- Abortion
- Adopted Child (Part 1)
- Adopted Child (Part 2)
- Adopted Child (Part 3)
- Ancestral Emotional Wounds (Part 3)
- Ancient Wisdom
- Anger
- Are You Stuck in Life?
- Bernried 2014
- Born Too Soon
- Boundary Setting
- Cancer
- Child Born to a Woman in Mourning
- Chronic Illness & Emotional Stress or Trauma
- Drawn to the Dead
- Emotion (Part 5)
- Emotional Entanglements (Part 3)
- Emotional Wounds for Men (Part 1)
- Emotional Wounds for Men (Part 2)
- Emotions (Part 1)
- Emotions (Part 2)
- Energetic Impact of Parent Separation on Children
- Energetic Separation From the Dead
- Epigenetics
- Former Intimate Partner
- Free Will
- Give and Take in Relationships (Part 1)
- Give and Take in Relationships (Part 2)
- Heal Yourself
- Healthy Boundary
- Hoarding
- How You Belong
- Immigration (Part 1)
- Immigration (Part 2)
- Immigration (Part 3)
- Incest
- Intimate Emotional Relationship (Part 4)
- Legacy of Canada’s Indian Residential Schools
- Let Go of Fears (Part 1)
- Let Go of Fears: Ceremony (Part 2)
- Live Life Fully
- Living in Agency
- Love Relationships
- Love Wheel
- Medicine Wheel
- Money
- Mothers and Daughters (Part 1)
- Mothers and Daughters (Part 2)
- Mothers and Daughters (Part 3)
- Patriarchy
- Peaceful Possibilities Books by Patricia
- Radical Inclusion (Part 1)
- Radical Inclusion (Part 2)
- Radical Inclusion (Part 3)
- Radical Inclusion (Part 4)
- Relationship
- Relationship With Father
- Residential Schools
- Ritual (Part 1)
- Ritual (Part 2)
- Serbia
- Sexuality, Sex Identity, and Gender Identity
- Stop Living in Agency
- Symptoms Create A Boundary
- Systemic Healing
- To Constellate or Not
- Transgenerational Trauma
- Victim and Perpetrator
- War
- Welcome!
- What Is Healing? (Part 3)
- What Is Healing? (Part One)
- What Is Healing? (Part Two)
- Where Healing Begins
- Why The Butterfly?
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