Do you need some help in creating a healthy energetic separation from the dead in your family system? Using genosociograms, systemic family constellations, and ritual can be quite effective in this pursuit. If you read my last blog post you will understand what I’m referring to when I say you…
Being drawn to the dead or turning to the dead are phrases that frequently arise in systemic family constellations. Each living family member, and this includes you of course, has the systemic potential of being drawn to the dead. Within the field of systemic family constellations and energy healing this…
Are you openly expressing your emotions? Our emotional body and cells rejoice when we give them a healthy emotional environment within which to live. Emotional healing begins when we walk our talk and learn to express our emotions openly. I can talk and write about emotions all I want, and…
Let’s discuss Energetic Emotional Entanglements and how they impact our emotional decision making in intimate relationships. In systemic family constellations work we say, “family systems marry family systems.” We seek out our deep energetic emotional and spiritual healing through intimate relationships. This is true whether you are married officially through…
Let’s discuss Energetic Emotional Entanglements that come out of unresolved family emotional trauma and wounds. If you are struggling with chronic conditions, repetitive life patterns, and/or relationship issues that aren’t serving you well, and you can’t seem to shift the energy, then this post might be for you. Part 1…
Each relationship you experience in life is meant to trigger your emotional response in some way. Why do you think families have so much drama? Your family of origin is a training ground to teach you how to respond emotionally to situations. Many of these emotional responses are learned unconsciously…
Do you openly process your emotions when they are triggered every day? Each one of us functions like a tuning fork, resonating with the energy field that surrounds us. Each time we engage in a relationship with another individual, whether that’s a parent, sibling, child, intimate partner, friend, acquaintance, co-worker,…
Ritual and Healing In the context of healing, ritual and ceremony are ways to give meaning to events and relationships. Ritual can affect transformation and bring about a certain sense of awareness, presence, ceremony, and empowerment. Ritual can take you to a different level of consciousness. Ritual is often felt…
Living in agency is energy deadening. Within the family or in the community, the words “I want,” “I need,” or “Can you…?” pull individuals into agency. If you respond to the needs of others at the expense of your own needs, you are living in agency. You have stopped listening…
I find ritual or ceremony can be very effective to let go of fears. Set aside a quiet time for yourself where you won’t be disturbed. If you happen to have an intimate partner, perhaps the ceremony could be done together. Or maybe you have a close friend or sibling…
