Gaining compassion for the biological parents and their journey in life is key to the wellness of the adopted child. Gaining compassion for self is equally important. This blog series is just as important whether you experienced adoption, the foster care system, or were raised by anyone other than your…
Adoption links four family systems together in their fate and the adopted child is energetically placed in the middle. There is the biological mother and her family system, the biological father and his family system, the adoptive mother and her family system, and the adoptive father and his family system. …
The adopted child may experience unconscious, unresolved energetic emotional entanglements with their biological family system. Unless the adoption is openly emotionally processed by everyone involved, there will be individuals living the impact of this unresolved emotional suppression and trauma through struggle in some way. The individual who has been given…
Let’s explore the energetic impact of parent separation on children. When parents separate and/or divorce, children of the relationship will often find themselves unwell or unbalanced in some way shortly before and/or after the separation, or frequently later in life. There is an assumption made that emotions have been suppressed…
How do former intimate partners fit into your family system? Have you amicably separated from your former intimate partner(s) or have you left in an explosion of fireworks with revenge on your mind? The use of the term “ex” is a misnomer. The former intimate partner belongs or remains in…
Early in 2002, I wrote a university paper on the dynamics of a child born to a woman in mourning – a widow. It was a topic I knew intimately. In 1995, my partner was killed in a vehicular accident when I was six weeks pregnant. Six and a half…
Do you need some help in creating a healthy energetic separation from the dead in your family system? Using genosociograms, systemic family constellations, and ritual can be quite effective in this pursuit. If you read my last blog post you will understand what I’m referring to when I say you…
Being drawn to the dead or turning to the dead are phrases that frequently arise in systemic family constellations. Each living family member, and this includes you of course, has the systemic potential of being drawn to the dead. Within the field of systemic family constellations and energy healing this…
Are you openly expressing your emotions? Our emotional body and cells rejoice when we give them a healthy emotional environment within which to live. Emotional healing begins when we walk our talk and learn to express our emotions openly. I can talk and write about emotions all I want, and…
Let’s discuss Energetic Emotional Entanglements and how they impact our emotional decision making in intimate relationships. In systemic family constellations work we say, “family systems marry family systems.” We seek out our deep energetic emotional and spiritual healing through intimate relationships. This is true whether you are married officially through…
