How do former intimate partners fit into your family system? Have you amicably separated from your former intimate partner(s) or have you left in an explosion of fireworks with revenge on your mind? The use of the term “ex” is a misnomer. The former intimate partner belongs or remains in…
Early in 2002, I wrote a university paper on the dynamics of a child born to a woman in mourning – a widow. It was a topic I knew intimately. In 1995, my partner was killed in a vehicular accident when I was six weeks pregnant. Six and a half…
Being drawn to the dead or turning to the dead are phrases that frequently arise in systemic family constellations. Each living family member, and this includes you of course, has the systemic potential of being drawn to the dead. Within the field of systemic family constellations and energy healing this…
Did you know that you have the capacity to heal yourself? Are you wondering about my sanity? Is this too unrealistic for you? Think again. Medical practitioners, either western or eastern, alternative wellness practitioners, psychotherapists, or counsellors do not have the capacity to heal the client or patient. Whether you…
Are you openly expressing your emotions? Our emotional body and cells rejoice when we give them a healthy emotional environment within which to live. Emotional healing begins when we walk our talk and learn to express our emotions openly. I can talk and write about emotions all I want, and…
Let’s discuss Energetic Emotional Entanglements and how they impact our emotional decision making in intimate relationships. In systemic family constellations work we say, “family systems marry family systems.” We seek out our deep energetic emotional and spiritual healing through intimate relationships. This is true whether you are married officially through…
Let’s discuss Energetic Emotional Entanglements that come out of unresolved family emotional trauma and wounds. If you are struggling with chronic conditions, repetitive life patterns, and/or relationship issues that aren’t serving you well, and you can’t seem to shift the energy, then this post might be for you. Part 1…
Each relationship you experience in life is meant to trigger your emotional response in some way. Why do you think families have so much drama? Your family of origin is a training ground to teach you how to respond emotionally to situations. Many of these emotional responses are learned unconsciously…
Do you openly process your emotions when they are triggered every day? Each one of us functions like a tuning fork, resonating with the energy field that surrounds us. Each time we engage in a relationship with another individual, whether that’s a parent, sibling, child, intimate partner, friend, acquaintance, co-worker,…
Ritual and Responsibility Conscious intention is required to participate in one’s own healing journey and to create meaningful ritual. This is stated to differentiate between those who heal as a result of the collective prayers or healing energy sent by others, sometimes without an individual’s direct conscious knowledge. It is…
